Reflexive Verbs

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A verb is reflexive when the subject and the object are the same.

Another way to think of it is when the subject is doing something to itself, it is reflexive. When the subject is doing something to someone or something else, it is not reflexive.

In English we make verbs reflexive by adding the word “himself”, “myself”, “yourself” and so on to the sentence. In Spanish, it’s done by using what is called a reflexive verb.

When a reflexive verb is used in Spanish, it is already understood that the action of the verb is being performed on the subject.

Let’s look at some examples of reflexive verbs in English to understand the concept, then we’ll start working with Spanish.

I wash myself.
subject: I
verb: wash
object: myself

Since the subject and object are the same, the verb is reflexive.

 

I wash the car.
subject: I
verb: wash
object: car

Since the subject and object are different, the verb is not reflexive.

Here’s another example of how a verb can be either reflexive or non-reflexive.

I scratch myself.
subject: I
verb: scratch
object: myself

Since the subject and object are the same, the verb is reflexive.

 

I scratch the dog.
subject: I
verb: scratch
object: dog

Since the subject and object are different, the verb is not reflexive.

When a verb is reflexive, the infinitive ends in “se.”

lavar
to wash (non-reflexive)

lavarse
to wash oneself (reflexive)

rascar
to scratch (non-reflexive)

rascarse
to scratch oneself (reflexive)

There is one reflexive verb you have been using since you began studying Spanish.

llamarse – to call oneself

¿Cómo se llama usted?
What do you call yourself?

Me llamo Juan.
I call myself Juan.

Note: A more “natural” translation would be “What is your name?” and “My name is Juan.”

When you learned to conjugate regular verbs, you needed to learn a set of pronouns called “subject pronouns.”

lavar

yo lavo
lavas
él, ella, usted lava
nosotros/as lavamos
vosotros/as laváis
ellos, ellas, ustedes lavan

To learn to conjugate reflexive verbs, you need to learn a different set of pronouns called “reflexive pronouns.” These pronouns are positioned before the verb, while the ending “se” is dropped and the verb is conjugated normally.

lavarse

yo me lavo
I wash (myself)

te lavas
you wash (yourself) (informal)

él se lava
he washes (himself)

ella se lava
she washes (herself)

usted se lava
you wash (yourself) (formal)

nosotros nos lavamos
we wash (ourselves)

nosotras nos lavamos
we wash (ourselves) (feminine)

vosotros os laváis
you-all wash (yourselves) (informal)

vosotras os laváis
you-all wash (yourselves) (informal, feminine)

ustedes se lavan
you-all wash (yourselves)(formal)

ellos se lavan
they wash (themselves)

ellas se lavan
they wash (themselves) (feminine)

The reflexive pronouns are not subject pronouns; rather they are object pronouns.

me (myself)
te (yourself)
se (himself, herself, yourself)
nos (ourselves)
os (yourselves)
se (themselves, yourselves)

The purpose of the reflexive object pronouns is to show that the action of the verb remains with the subject.

Juan se lava la cara.
Juan washes his face. (reflexive)

Juan lava su carro. (non-reflexive)
Juan washes his car.

Note: When referring to body parts, use the definite article, thus “la cara” not “su cara.”

Note that many, many verbs can be made reflexive. All it means when a verb is reflexive is that the action remains with the subject.

wash the dog (non-reflexive)
wash your face (reflexive)

raise the book (non-reflexive)
raise yourself (reflexive)

put the baby to bed (non-reflexive)
go to bed (reflexive)

wake up your son (non-reflexive)
wake up yourself (reflexive)

…and so on

Some Common Reflexive Verbs

Examples of some common reflexive Spanish verbs are below. Click on them to view their correct conjugation using our verb conjugation tool.

VerbMeaning
AburrirseTo get bored.
AfeitarseTo shave (oneself).
BañarseTo take a bath.
CansarseTo get tired.
CasarseTo get married.
DespertarseTo wake up.
DivertirseTo have fun.
EmborracharseTo get drunk.
EnamorarseTo fall in love.
GraduarseTo graduate.
LevantarseTo get up.
LavarseTo wash (oneself).
MaquillarseTo put on makeup.
OlvidarseTo forget.
PeinarseTo comb (one’s hair).
QuedarseTo stay (behind).
VestirseTo get dressed.